“I
love you” were the words he spoke. At one point those words meant the world to
me. However, they have since lost their meaning to me. Lies stole the only
thing that gave me breath; love.
The
look in his eyes when he spoke those words years ago, was once the thing that
gave me life. Now, when he speak those words all I can hear is the word “lies”
repeating over and over in my mind. I know that I need to forgive him, but
forgiving him does not mean that I love him any less, or that he deserves to
stay in my life, nor am I obligated to keep him in my life.
What most
people forget is that pain can and will change people. And they should be
careful of the hurt and pain they cause to others, and take for granted that
they will continue to forgive them. One day they will eventually get tired and
may end up resenting that person. Resenting them at a time that they need them
the most, and their life depending on them to save him/her.
We should take
the time now, while we can, to say that "I am sorry" and mean it. It
may just save a lot of pain later.
An apology can
be a kick-starter to forgiveness, but one should not expect that because a
person may forgive you, that does not mean they will still want to keep you in
their life. Why? Because the trust that was given was violated with lies, and
now a person may feel betrayed and that they can never trust you again. Lies
hurt! Plain and simple. There is no other way of putting it.
The victim may
forgive you so that they can move on with their life, and take it as a learning
lesson, but never assume that the person is weak, because they forgave you.
I've
been there before. Been lied to before and too many times to count! I was able
to bounce back from it all, and now I'll share with you in ‘A Better Me’
how YOU too can bounce back, forgive yourself and others and move on.
You
can now purchase your Kindle or paperback copy of ‘A Better Me’
directly on Amazon, or if you wish to purchase a signed copy, you may do so at my website Author Mahogany Law.
Additionally,
this book will be a book that you can refer back to over the years to come.
The
bonus materials will also provide tips on finances for both personal and
business, steps to starting a business while married, credit repair, and a lot
of other bonus materials.
For
anyone that purchases A Better Me, it is sure to take you on a straight from the
heart transformational ride, so don't be afraid to invite some of your friends
and family to join you on this journey.
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