Two Things to Never Take for Granted
How many times have you been in a
relationship where you’ve given your all to the person that you are with, and
they giving barely anything back in return? How many times have you proven time
and time again that you are loyal to him or her, and they have taken it for
granted?
This is what I call “people who
believe that there are no expiration dates to guarantees.” They take your
forgiving them for granted, and they believe that because you love them, you
will remain loyal, and give up your right to feel offended by the very thing
that they keep doing that you dislike. Now, let’s explore this when it comes to
cheating.
Cheaters
Cheaters will cheat, and there’s no
one who can stop a cheater from cheating, except if he or she wants to stop
cheating, they will find a way to stop it.
Most times some men and women will
cheat and give up the guaranteed love and care they have from their spouse or
partner, only to find that the guarantees that they gave up were worth more and
better than the person they cheated with. Their spouse or partner may have
forgiven them a time or two before, however, what that cheater is forgetting is
that eventually, the loyalty will reach its expiration date.
You see, sometimes in life we give up
the guarantees for the non-guarantees, unfortunately because we take those
guarantees for granted. There are
two things (out of many others) that a man or woman should never take for
granted; a forgiving heart and a loyal person.
The truth is, guarantees have limits and
expiration dates. Once those limits are pushed, it will activate the time frame
it will take for those guarantees to be expired. And be it a marriage or
relationship, once those limits are pushed, and there are no steps taken "to
remedy the issue, she will remove herself from the table to never return."
Moral of the story: Never take a good thing for granted, because there will
come a point when that good thing will be your most valuable loss.
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